How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why is the government destroying the homeless instead of helping them?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

This is a real question: Why do a lot of men/boys hate (yes, hate) women that voice their criteria in choosing a partner? Even when the criteria is sane and responsible. Besides it being, sadly, an effective mating strategy, why does it exist?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Can the right person make a narc want to change their ways? Is love that powerful? Has anyone seen this or experience it?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I get my ex-husband to love me again?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What are some dirty secrets of Indian (Bollywood, etc.) actors and actresses?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What contributed to the popularity of The Beatles' song 'Yesterday'? Was it due to its simplicity, lyrics, or other factors?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

How do empaths destroy narcissists?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.